Do you have a strong thought process? What is a strong thought process?
A strong thought process actually comes from something known as "the differential".
What is "the differential"? In fact, there is nothing wrong with all that we have studied and learnt up to this stage in life. The main thing, and most important thing is, what determines our outlook in life? This is where "the differential" comes about.
Positivity can only come about if, there is a deliberate program to think positive. Negativity, on the other hand is automatic. Do allow me to quote an example: If you buy a piece of land, and you do nothing with it, what happens to it? Weeds grow! You do not have to buy weed seeds to plant the weeds, they just grow! It is just automatic, and unless you have a deliberate program to think positive, then chances are that you are automatically negative. And yes, I am sorry, really sorry about it,but whichever school you went to or what profession you are in, who you are and stuff, you are automatically negative. If you sit in front of the television and read newspapers, sorry! You are automatically negative. It does not take a genius to figure that out. So what helps to activate the positive thinking program? Motivational audios, books, seminars and also a platform to actually apply that to. How do you increase the positive in you? Simple. Stop the negative going in into you via your ears, mouth and brain. Cap the negative, and start putting in so much positive that you dilute the negative. Here is where "the differential" comes in. If the positivity in you is much much greater compared to the negativity in you, then congratulations! You have a huge Positive differential! But what if that differential goes the other way round?
There is actually no secret to that. You can do self-talk to yourself! Why? The nearest source of sound that we hear actually does not come from others, but from our own mouth! Are you aware of that? Our mouth has the power of life and death, and if we speak the right words we uplift not only others but ourselves as well! What if you start telling yourself today that you are the best in your field of work? What if you repeat telling yourself the same thing over and over again? Over time, it becomes something that is called "belief". If since young you believe that you are not good at something, the good news is that you can change that belief. You just have to repeat in telling yourself that you are the best in your field (your work, business etc etc) and over time, accumulatively the belief that you had in yourself that you are not good at something will eventually come to be diluted because of the constant selftalk you are doing to yourself, coupled with the other forms of "education" like audios, books & seminars that you invest in and attend. And since it has become your belief with constant repetition of self-talk, this positive belief will still be in you, only to get stronger and stronger with each of the tests that comes along in life.
I trust that this article will go some way in helping you to adopt a stronger thought process, and that you will be stronger as a result of this. Positivity is a byproduct of the stronger thought process! Change the way you talk to yourself, and you change the way you think about yourself. Change the way you think about yourself and you change the way you look at yourself. When you change about the way you look at yourself..you do not know who the next person you touch in life is, and how he/she will benefit from a better you! Fight and go for it! Cheers!
"You will be the same in five years' time, except for the books you read and the people you associate with"
Thursday, July 10, 2008
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- An ordinary person seeking to overcome the logical & emotional challenges to do something extraordinary in life